Add member address, state normalization, account inheritance, fix member form

- Address field on member table (jsonb, same format as account)
- Members inherit email, phone, address from account when not provided
- State normalization: "Texas" → "TX", "california" → "CA" via shared util
- Member form drops zodResolver to fix optional field validation flashing
- Account name auto-format: "First Last - Account"
- US state lookup with full name + code support

packages/backend/src/db/migrations/0011_member_address.sql

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+-- Add address to member table
+ALTER TABLE "member" ADD COLUMN "address" jsonb;